Voices of the Incarcerated - Celebrating Women's History Day

The essay "Celebrating Women’s History Day in New Jersey’s Only Prison for Women," written by Lucretia Stone, is featured at the Prison Journalism Project. Excerpts from the essay are featured below.

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As a Black woman, my Blackness is honored in February while my womanhood is honored in March. For me, Women’s History Month means paying homage to women who have paved the way for myself and others.

Those who I most want to honor are women who have loved me unconditionally. They have been stable rocks throughout my incarceration at Edna Mahan Correctional Facility for Women, the only women’s prison in New Jersey. Other women incarcerated here also shared reflections on the women who have been significant in their lives.

First, I would like to honor my grandmother, Phone Lee Pridgen. She is my Pisces twin, born on March 14, one day after me. She died years ago, but March is always a time for me to reflect on her life. Before prison, my grandmother would support me with funny and helpful advice.

“Keep your underwear clean at all times, baby,” she might have said. “You never know when or if you will get into an accident and have to go to the hospital.”

I’d also like to honor my mother, Louvenia Stone. While incarcerated, she has consistently been at my court hearings, called me and visited me. She is my ride-or-die. My mom taught me to respect and honor my body by not allowing anyone to disrespect me. Growing up, she stayed on me about self-care and self-love. As I became a teenager, my mom would take me shopping and joke that I needed to stop filling the shopping cart with soda and candy, and instead focus on feminine hygiene products. 

Faith, who has been incarcerated 21 years, said that Women’s History Month is a time to honor the women of the past, including the great Sojourner Truth, who escaped slavery and became an abolitionist.

Faith’s voice softened when she spoke of her mother, Ms. Dorothy, whom she described as a constant inspiration. Ms. Dorothy has stood by her daughter throughout her incarceration, answering the phone calls, visiting when she can and sending money. Faith said her mother has been dedicated when she did not have to be. 

Even in prison, women can still make an impact on the lives of the people around them and on their loved ones on the outside. We do this through being kind to one another, uplifting each other, and maximizing instead of minimizing one another. In the fight for women’s rights, liberation and equality, women in prison must be included as well.

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Lucretia Stone is a writer incarcerated in New Jersey. You can read her work, and the work of other incarcerated writers, at the Prison Journalism Project, which works to provide incarcerated writers with the tools and training to establish themselves as credible journalists so they can meaningfully participate in the decision making processes that impact them and their communities.